Today we’d like to introduce you to Chava Gutierrez
Hi Chava , so excited to have you with us today. What can you tell us about your story?
My journey started in a very unexpected way—on my honeymoon. My wife and I decided to attend a couples retreat, and while we were there, I saw so many relationships struggling. I told myself, ‘I never want to end up like this.’ But life has a way of teaching you the lessons you try to avoid.
Even though I thought I had it all figured out, my own relationship went through a crisis. I did what most people do—I looked for professional help. But I couldn’t find the answers I was looking for. That’s when I decided to become the solution I couldn’t find.
I dove deep into studying relationships, human behavior, and emotional intelligence. I started sharing what I learned online, and people connected with it instantly. What began as simple advice turned into a movement—millions of people resonated with my content, and I found myself helping couples worldwide through books, workshops, and therapy sessions.
Today, I dedicate my life to saving families from separation, making relationship tools accessible, and reminding people that love isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the right person.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
Not at all! The road has been anything but smooth. The truth is, when I started helping others decode the path to a healthy relationship, I didn’t even have the answers for my own. I was guiding couples, giving them tools that transformed their relationships, while silently questioning what I needed to do to achieve the same for myself.
One of my biggest struggles was realizing that understanding relationships and actually living a fulfilling one were two completely different things. I watched couples thrive with the advice I gave them, yet I was still searching for that same clarity in my own journey. And when my own relationship went through a crisis, it forced me to confront everything I thought I knew.
I sought professional help, but I couldn’t find the answers I needed. That was a turning point—I became obsessed with understanding relationships not just to help others, but to truly help myself. This journey led me to lead couples’ retreats around the world and even work with businesses, because I realized that the hardest part of any relationship—romantic or professional—is learning how to navigate human connection.
It hasn’t been an easy road, but every struggle shaped the work I do today. I didn’t start this journey with all the answers—far from it. But by questioning, learning, and growing, I found a way to help others while discovering my own path to a healthier relationship.
Appreciate you sharing that. What should we know about Chava Gutierrez LLC?
My mission is simple: to promote and democratize the science of healthy relationships. Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a strong relationship—understanding, communication, and emotional intelligence play a crucial role. Unfortunately, most people are never taught how to navigate love in a healthy way. That’s why I dedicate my work to making relationship tools accessible to everyone, not just through content, but through real, transformative experiences.
I specialize in helping couples rebuild their connection, decode their relationship patterns, and break cycles that keep them stuck. I’m known for my direct yet empathetic approach, blending science with real-life strategies that couples can actually apply. What sets me apart is that I don’t just share theory—I help people put it into action.
One of the things I’m most proud of is taking this mission beyond social media and into the real world. I lead couples’ retreats across the globe, providing immersive experiences where couples can work on their relationship in a deep and meaningful way. My next retreat will be in Houston this March, and I couldn’t be more excited to continue helping people transform their relationships from the inside out.
Whether it’s through retreats, content, or working with businesses on conflict resolution, my goal remains the same: to make sure people have the tools they need to build relationships that thrive.
What matters most to you? Why?
My family.
I grew up in a financially abundant family, but emotionally, it was toxic. Success, achievements, and material things were always the priority, but real connection and emotional safety were missing. For a long time, I thought that conquering the world—building a career, reaching milestones, making an impact—was what truly mattered.
Then, seven years ago, I hit rock bottom. I fell into depression, and in that darkness, I realized something that changed my life: none of my success would mean anything if I had no one to share it with. What’s the point of reaching the top if you get there alone? That moment reshaped my entire perspective on life and relationships.
Now, my family is my priority. Not just the one I was born into, but the one I’m building—through my marriage, my future children, and the people I choose to surround myself with. Because at the end of the day, love, connection, and the people who truly see and support you are what make life worth living.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.chavagutierrez.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chavagutierrezzz/?hl=es
